The Unplugged Alpha

078 - Men Should Avoid Women That Are Alpha Widows

Paul Benjamin joins me to talk about 'alpha widows', how to spot them, and why men shouldn't get involved with women that have been alpha widowed by another man.
Men, do not make a train wreck out of your life by inviting the wrong woman into it, this episode will be a life saver for many.

077 - Identifying Sails & Anchors in Your Life

As you navigate life, you need to get good at identifying opportunities & people that are sails and anchors. The former brings you on a passage to a new port of call, the latter holds you back.

076 - 8 Toxic People Men Must Avoid

This video examines in depth 8 types of toxic people to avoid in business, relationships and life that are likely to invite a train wreck into your life.
They are:
1) People that lie - Bullshit baffles brains
2) People into drugs, alcohol & other addictive's
3) Broke people - Especially those that deceive you with virtues, rented lambos & raptor grills
4) People that make bad choices - They will invite problems into your life
5) People you wouldn't trade places with - Always evaluate your source
6) Shit talks other people constantly - Exes, business partners, friends, family etc
7) People who's actions misaligned with words
8) The feels over reals people

075 - Why We Get Jealous - Destructive & Productive Jealousy

Jealousy: Why male jealousy is different than female jealousy, and how male jealousy can be either productive or destruction in relationships. In this broadcast we will cover...
1. Evolutionary origins of male and female jealousy and why they are fundamentally different.
2. Two types of jealousy; retroactive jealousy and current jealousy. Retroactive jealousy: jealous over past threats; men in her past and her past sexual history.
3. Is jealousy protective or damaging?
4. Existential Despair; the ultimate killer. Men react to the destructive aspect of jealousy with “existential despair.” They adopt the belief that any idea of being bonded to a woman and maintaining that bond long term is impossible.
5. Solutions: a man must get emotional control over his primal jealousy, which will be completely overstimulated. He must have patience and be able to break down everything logically and methodically; and assess potential mates for a retained ability to pair bond. “Red” flags and “green” flags and data points are valuable here, as well as observing her behavior over time.
#Jealousy #DatingTips #Relationships

074 - Wife Turns To OnlyFans - Nikole Mitchell, Mother of 3 Brags About Making $47,000/m

Jonathan C Noble, a Family Lawyer, joins me today to talk about Nikole Mitchell, a mother of 3, that was a evangelical pastor that turned to stripping, then moved on to OnlyFans and unsurprisingly ended the marriage.
We'll look at the red flags that were waived in front of her ex-husband John Mitchell, and hear Jonathan Noble reaction to it from a divorce lawyers perspective.
Check out Rollos interview with the ex-husband here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vAAKw...
Nikole Mitchell Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mitchellnik...
#NikoleMitchell #OnlyFans #RedFlags

073 - Man Dodges MAJOR Paternity Bullet

I'll share a very interesting story about a man that barely dodged a bullet and what lessons you can take from dealing with paternity issues with suspicions you have around kids.

072 - Unconditional Love - The 16 Commandments of Poon

In this broadcast, I'm going to review the 16 commandments of poon, and see how relevant they are today; apparently the closer you follow the letter of these commandments, the easier you will find and keep real, true unconditional love and happiness in your life.
Link to blog here: https://heartiste.org/the-sixteen-com...
The commandments are:
I. Never say ‘I Love You’ first
II. Make her jealous
III. You shall make your mission, not your woman, your priority
IV. Don’t play by her rules
V. Adhere to the golden ratio
VI. Keep her guessing
VII. Always keep two in the kitty
VIII. Say you’re sorry only when absolutely necessary
IX. Connect with her emotions
X. Ignore her beauty
XI. Be irrationally self-confident
XII. Maximize your strengths, minimize your weaknesses
XIII. Err on the side of too much boldness, rather than too little
XIV. Fuck her good
XV. Maintain your state control
XVI. Never be afraid to lose her

071 - 6 Risks Dating Single Moms

We're going to review 6 often overlooked risks men invite into their lives when they decide to date a single mother. First I'll open with why men tend to date single mothers, then talk about the 6 main risks, then close with when dating a single mother might make sense for a man.
In some tribes, after combat, if a father dies, they terminate the children since their chance of survival is low

070 - How To Stop Whining & Start Winning

Recently got zero'd out and feeling worse than nothing? Cool, now it's time to stop the sulking, and get some wins on the board.
It's really easy to get overwhelmed with how bad your situation can get but getting wins on the board (fitness, money, game) can change your outlook and motivate you to win.
Nothing inspires wanting more success than getting success.
Discussion points:
- EVERYONE gets kicked down in life, only winners get back up, losers sulk
- Your circle of influence, dictates your successes
- Your physical presence speaks louder than you think
- Can you be lethal should the need be called upon you?
- Are you competing in life, and how?
- Making bank, can you make it rain?
- Do you have game, do women have genuine desire for you?
- Kick depression, and mental health issues
Plus much more...

069 - Breaking Up With a Covert Narcissist

Paul from Apex Mindset, and Divorce Lawyer, Jonathan C Noble Esq join me today to talk about breaking up with, and divorcing a Covert Narcissist, and why they need special treatment, ESPECIALLY in family law...
Top female narcissist behaviors (these do NOT establish Narcissistic
Personality Disorder, but they are narcissistic clues to have on your
radar). In no special order:
1) Overly competitive / jealous. “Look what my friend Rita got for
Valentine’s Day from her husband. WHAT DID YOU GET ME?”.
2) Overly concerned with her appearance. – cosmetic surgery,
cosmetic dental work, lots of makeup, hair extensions, etc.
3) Materialistic – love spending $. Clothes, cars, handbags, jewelry,
Love to flaunt and talk about what they have (even if it is paid on
credit).
4) Thinks others are jealous of her. This feeds her ego.
5) She is overly sensitive to criticism. Insanely defensive.
6) She has a false sense of superiority. It is laughable to you when
you see this, but the narcissist has zero sense of self awareness
and really believes what she is saying. (Example: a woman in her
50’s or even 60’s really thinks she is still competing with a 30 year
old on the SMV scale).
7) She is a drama queen. Bores quickly. Even insignificant events get
blown out of proportion.
8) Triangulation – Loves to create problems then she pits people
against each other. Even between their own children.
9) She has a shameless disregard for boundries, but demands you are
in strict compliance with her wishes.
10) She gaslights you. “I never said that”.... you may be doubting
your own reality.
You feel like want to record your conversations with her to play for
her later when she denies what she said.
11) Tries to make you feel like you are never enough. Belittles you
during devaluation, discard stage.
12) She has a constant need for validation from you and everyone
else around.
13) Long series of broken relationships. Serial dater. High body
count.
14) She cannot stand not being in control of you. This can trigger
narcissist rage when you stand firm.
15) She plays the victim and wants you to sympathize with her.
16) Many other red flags to watch out for......