The Unplugged Alpha

0108 - 6 BIG Things That Make Men Weak & Should Be Avoided

In this cast we'll talk about 'red flags' in men and choices they make that will make them weak, poor, and unattractive. This is also known as the pussification of the western male.
We will cover the following:
- Endocrine disruptors. Compounds men consume that make them fat, sick & infertile
- Combat sports. My take on why combat sports are so important, and what I've personally gained from getting involved.
- Removing feminization media from consumption.
- Consumption of narratives that reinforce the pussification of the western male.
- Mastering hygiene, a masculine physic & signaling high testosterone cues.
-Competency skills and what they are. Can you solve problems, are you innovative, can you make it rain, are you putting a dent in the universe etc.

0107 - What’s Good For The Goose ISN’T Always Good For The Gander

Women (and plugged in men) often try to apply a set of rules that apply to men, to women and vice versa.
Some of the differences in our evolved firmware we'll discuss include:
Men and women get jealous for completely different reasons.
People tell men "do what's right" but they tell women, "do what's right for you girl."
Men and women cheat for totally different reasons.
Women athletes should be paid the same as male athletes.
Women can't be promiscuous with impunity, while men can. There are consequences to women, that don't apply to men.
Men are the disposable sex, while women are the protected sex.
Women can't put off having babies for a career the way men can.
Fathers are handled totally differently to mothers in family law
By default we believe all women (IE #Metoo), and men are guilty until proven innocent, whereas, women aren't held to that standard.

0106 - What High Value Men Want From Women

I'm often asked by women how to land a top shelf man, so in this live cast I'll tell you what a high value man expects of a woman, and what he won't tolerate.
Subscribe to the channel, and hit 'set reminder' to watch live, I will be taking call in questions on topic.
What high value men should avoid:
- Disagreeable women
- Unhealthy (obese, addictions etc) lifestyle women
- Single moms
- The unhappy & unlucky
- Promiscuous women
- Feminist women
- Victim mindset
- Bossgirl type women
- Pet moms
- Attention seeking behavior
What high value men should seek:
- Femininity
- Awareness
- Ownership
- Maturity
- Class
- Beauty
- Fertility ques
- A complement to their life
- A cheerleader

0105 - Ending Bitterness Towards Others

A ton of men/women get bitter towards others when things do go their way in life, tonight's BTT will be about bitterness, and getting over it. Tune in live to call in during the Q&A session. Link will be provided with the show is live.
The origin of bitterness is anger/hurt.
Let anger/hurt fester long enough and it matures into bitterness
It can be the catalyst to vengeful acts, prevent you from being present (power of now), and it also facilitates a victim mindset.
You can't be bitter without having a victim mindset.
The remedy to bitterness is forgiveness.
The longer you hold onto your anger, the more you’ll sink into the destructive quagmire of hatred and resentment. Anger will always “mature” into bitterness.
Thoughts to consider:
Did the person who hurt you consciously intend to treat you maliciously?
Did they really have a personal vendetta against you? If it was, is it retaliatory?
Your offender was most likely solipsistic, and more concerned with their own agenda than hurting you.
The solution is to look at the events in a new light.
Quotes to consider:
“It is hardly possible to build anything if frustration, bitterness, and a mood of helplessness prevail.” (Lech Walesa)
“I know from personal experience how damaging it can be to live with bitterness and unforgiveness. I like to say it’s like taking poison and hoping your enemy will die. And it really is that harmful to us to live this way.” (Joyce Meyer)
“Something my mum taught me years and years and years ago, is life’s just too short to carry around a great bucket-load of anger and resentment and bitterness and hatreds.” (Kevin Rudd)

0104 - Raising Daughters w/ @Rollo Tomassi

In this live show me and Rollo get together to chop it up on the topic of how to properly raise daughters so they have success in all areas of life as an adult.

0103 - Woman Learns (Live) Men & Women Are Not The Same

This cast will discuss female nature, why men must understand it, and how women view men that comprehend female nature. Inspired by a female viewer, this is her email pasted below...
Dear Richard,
I am a 32-year-old woman, I read your book, and I appreciate everything you are doing to help men all over the world. I'd also like to better understand how you view women.
It feels to me like you view them (us) as perpetually immature beings compared to men. You call women solipsistic and define solipsism as "can't see past her own nose." You say that the company of women without sex is not interesting to you because you have so little in common. You think you'd get better company from a dog. You think women don't care about a man's struggles and don't have the capacity for true loyalty.
If all that is right, what's another word to describe this? This lack of character, integrity, empathy, capacity for personal autonomy or growth? I don't think you see women as psychopaths. So, I think "perpetually immature" might be a good term, with the female version of a (sort of) "maturation" as submission to a man.
And what about men? You and Rollo have this video about these four dorky guys in a poly relationship, and you say that you can turn them into men in no time. But you don't think women can take ownership of their lives, other than submitting to men? Or only take ownership in as far as learning to service men better, but what about building character?
Ultimately, I'm asking you whether you think women are capable of pursuing and achieving integrity over the course of their lives, the way men can? And if you don't think they can, what sense of meaning could they get from their lives? What sense of meaning would I get from mine, if everything I think you believe about women were true about me? And what would that even look like or feel like? I don't tend toward a victim mindset, unless perhaps I was in really tragic conditions. So, either I have a moral need to pursue integrity, which I do, or I am very immature, which I no longer am, or I am a psychopath, which I never was. Yes, I am just talking about me right now, but can't the world be full of women who feel and think and behave the same way?
Do you understand the question I am asking you? I think you see men as having endless potential, moral and otherwise, but women as these sorts of caricatures of real people. They may claim to be moral, but with a shallow self-righteousness that's based on momentary emotions. That are just mindlessly living out their evolutionary programming, like talking, walking, bigger-breasted chimpanzees. Is that how you view them (us)?
Love,
Irene

0102 - Why 75% of Men DON’T Recommend Marriage

This podcast will examine the reasons why 75% of (married/divorced) men today DO NOT recommend marriage to single men.

0101 - Getting Frame Back in a Relationship

Through a process of betatization through a thousand concessions, most men lose "frame" in a longer term relationship, and she stops or pulls back on things like intimacy, and stops respecting you.
Paul Benjamin, Rian Stone & Rollo Tomassi joins me tonight to talk about getting the frame back in an LTR.

0100 - 100th Episode Celebration - ALL Q&A Call Ins

Celebrating 100 episodes of the 'Before The Train Wreck" series, I'll have a few close friends join me, and call ins will be open so you can ask a question, or share your biggest lesson learned from the series.

099 - Posers

There's an epidemic of posers, frauds, clout chasers and fake men shilling lies that will eventually lead to a train wreck for men serious about seeking betterment.
Tonight I'll show you how to identify these dangerous personalities, and why you should avoid them.